A Mother's Reckoning

A Mother's Reckoning

Living in the Aftermath of the Columbine Tragedy

eBook - 2016
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Publisher: London :, WH Allen,, 2016.
ISBN: 9781101902769
Characteristics: 1 online resource (xxii, 305 pages) : illustrations (black and white)


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vm510 Nov 30, 2017

Sue Klebold's memoir about Columbine is stunning in the way it shatters our ideas about parenting: that every good and present parent must know the mental state of their child. Her experience shows us that can be false.
Klebold's book gives a personal recounting of her life in the almost 20 years since Columbine. She focuses on what she terms "brain health" and how she has turned her sorrow into activism. I would suggest the audiobook, as she narrates it herself.

Nov 23, 2017

This memoir is an intimate and gut-wrenching look inside the home of an ordinary little boy who grew up to be a high school mass murderer. Her son’s suicide inside the school library following the rampage left Sue Klebold heartbroken and in search of answers, with no one to whom she could pose the questions. She comes to conclude that a deep depression she failed to recognize played a significant role in her son’s involvement in the shooting, and advocates strongly for health care and suicide prevention—though she also clearly states that mental illness should not be assumed to lead to violence. Klebold does her best to recount the events in a way that is compatible with existing guidelines for responsible reporting on such tragedies in order to prevent imitation, something which she sharply calls out the media for failing to do in their treatment of the events at Columbine High School. It is a harrowing read because it shows people who commit terrible acts of evil as human, leaving aside the question of whether those who do monstrous things need to be humanized. I can’t imagine how upsetting this account might be for anyone who lost loved ones at Columbine.

Originally published at Required Reading: https://shayshortt.com/2017/11/23/fall-2017-non-fiction-mini-reviews/

AL_HOLLYR Aug 29, 2017

In this remarkable book that must have been unimaginably difficult to write, Klebold offers another harrowing perspective of Columbine. She tells her story with great sensitivity to everyone involved and uses her experience bravely to search for ways to avoid such tragedies in the future.

Feb 17, 2017

“We teach our kids the importance of good dental care, proper nutrition, and financial responsibility. How many of us teach our children to monitor their own brain health, or know how to do it ourselves?”

Thank you, Sue Klebold, for writing this heavy, inspiring book. I appreciated her open and raw honesty about not knowing anything about Dylan's severe depression. In a world where parents can be full of themselves and believe their child can do no wrong, this was a huge sigh of relief, I imagine, for her to say everything and put it all on the table.

Before I picked this one up, I had the brief idea in my mind that Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris were the two young men who had made the devastating decision to commit mass murder before taking their own lives in April of 1999 at Columbine High School. I left my ego at the door, and my whole perspective on these scenarios and suicide has changed tremendously. I feel as though I can understand Dylan's heartbreaking case, but not so much Eric's. According to the specialists that Sue had spoken with, Eric's lack of empathy and potential psychopathy and Dylan's feeling of isolation and wish to die made the perfect combination for what happened.

I strongly urge everyone to at least skim, if not read entirely, this book because it is tremendously educational on the big elephant in the room: suicide is the #1 killer in young people and there is a whole stigma behind even talking about it. Although this book broke my heart over and over again, especially in a specific part where she names off all the victims, I cannot stress how impactful this book has been.

AL_MARYA Jan 26, 2017

I appreciate Sue Klebold's courage and vulnerability in sharing the horrifying account of her son's part in the 1999 Columbine massacre. This is a heart wrenching, but important, read that I recommend to any parent.

AL_CHRISTINE Dec 07, 2016

Very thought provoking and heart wrenching!

AL_SIDDRA Dec 01, 2016

This was a sad and interesting read. It's such a well known story. I learned so much about this tragic event and about teen depression from this mothers account.

Sep 11, 2016

A difficult read. I had to skip a lot as it was so painful.

Sep 08, 2016

This was an interesting book. It takes you through all ranges of emotions. There were times when I felt so incredibly sad for her and there were other times when I felt like she was playing the Martyr. She was definitely defensive in parts and I totally understand that. This book was also terrifying to me, because she was like every mother out there. She raised her 2 sons in a loving home and felt like she and her husband were vigilant in taking care of their children. She didn't see any signs leading up to the mass shooting and suicide. She felt like she would know if there was something bothering her children and could tell if they were lying. I think every mother feels that way. In the aftermath there were many people she talked to that all said they would have also missed the signs. Dylan had been seeing a counselor and he knew exactly what the counselor wanted to hear so that was what he said. This book is definitely enlightening and addresses the needs for better mental health education and assistance.

Aug 07, 2016

As a clinical psychologist I am always interested in the why of human behavior. I believe Ms. Klebold is honest in her memories of her relationship of her son, but reading "No Easy Answers: The Truth Behind Death at Columbine High School" by Brooks Brown, one of Dylan's friends, still leaves me wondering how disconnected this family was from their son and his secret activities. Recommend

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Feb 17, 2017

“We teach our kids the importance of good dental care, proper nutrition, and financial responsibility. How many of us teach our children to monitor their own brain health, or know how to do it ourselves?”

AL_MARYA Jan 26, 2017

I wish I had listened more instead of lecturing; I wish I had sat in silence with him instead of filling the void with my own words…acknowledged his feelings instead of trying to talk him out of them, and that I ‘d never accepted his excuses to avoid conversation - I’m tired, I have homework to do - when things felt off. I wish I’d sat in the dark with him, and repeated my concerns when he dismissed them. I wish I’d dropped everything else to focus on him, probed and prodded more, and that I had been present enough to see what I did not. 263


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